Self-Esteem Detriment

One of the most valuable assets you can have is a positive self-image or strong self-esteem. As we grow from childhood to adulthood, our self-esteem grows. Our self-esteem is shaped by the love and acceptance we receive from our parents, family members, and friends. It is related to how efficient and successful we perceive ourselves to be.

When things are going well, it is simpler to feel good about oneself. When things go wrong, you typically lose some of your self-confidence and start to doubt yourself.

Whether this is your first experience with adversity or you have been there before, you may feel a sense of loss that stretches far beyond the loss of your money. Work contributes to your sense of self. It helps to identify who you are and integrates you into a bigger group. Working gives you a sense of belonging and importance since you have something to contribute.

Losing a job or a portion of your money is similar to losing a piece of yourself in many respects. Your way of life abruptly alters. Schedules and habits that used to control a major portion of your time are no longer present. You lose touch with your network of coworkers and friends.

Many unemployed people report experiencing grief and mourning as a result of their job loss. This grief is marked by stages of denial, rage, despair, and, finally, acceptance. Most people eventually figure out how to deal with their emotions with the aid of those around them. They make adjustments to assist them to recover from and put their loss into perspective. Others may find it more difficult to cope and may seek expert assistance.